2017 Year in Review: Part One

January – February

  • I started working at Petco
  • Had a few interviews, didn’t get any of the jobs

March – April

  • Went to the Welcome to Night Vale live show in Raleigh with my friend Laura
  • Had a couple of interviews

May – June

  • Got those jobs!
  • Quit Petco & babysitting ( :'( )
  • Started two part time jobs in two different libraries
  • Visited Gage in NYC
    • MET MISTY COPELAND

2016 Year in Review

Well, the end of 2016 is here and with it comes the start of a new year, so here’s a recap of my 2016:

  • January
    • Spent most of Jan at home in NC
    • Started semester 2 of Master’s
  • February
    • Mentally prepared for March and April
  • Mar
    • Family friends visited Dublin
    • Went to Milan (same day the fam friends left)
    • Met family in London (a week after Milan) and then traveled Ireland with them
  • April
    • Met different family friends in London (less than a week after family visit)
    • Went to a Library of Ireland talk and met Eoin Colfer (he signed my Artemis Fowl book, but I really wish I’d had my slightly beat up copy from middle school)
    • 9 assignments due in 4 weeks
  • May
    • Created a digital repository as part of a class project, kept updating it throughout the year
    • Wrote the first book review of the year: Neal Stephenson’s The Diamond Age (even though I didn’t start posting them on here until after I’d gone back and written them for Jan)
    • Lisa came to visit
  • June
    • A friend from China and her girlfriend came to visit Dublin
    • Came home for my bro’s graduation, resulting in the decision to move back to the US so I wouldn’t have to worry about missing big family events
    • Started a portfolio series called You Can Teach a Mouse to Click
  • July
    • Went to London to see Harry Potter and the Cursed Child
      • Met up with a comic artist I follow on Tumblr and a friend I used to work with at Best Buy in 2012 who I haven’t seen since then
    • Volunteered at the Festival of Curiosity
    • Final Capstone Thesis presentation
  • August
    • Finally wrote a follow-up to Fernweh called Heimweh
    • Went to a Gatsby party with some friends, wearing a dress I made myself
    • Started teaching myself to crochet
    • Wrote the article series Travel in (Relative) Style
    • Went to see friends in Killarney
    • Went to Barcelona (saw some friends there) and Paris
    • Celebrated my 25th birthday a few times
    • Submitted my Master’s Capstone Thesis
  • September
    • Visited a friend in Limerick
    • Katie came to visit Ireland and we went to Scotland
    • Moved back home
  • October
    • Started volunteering at the Kernersville Library and Körner’s Folly
    • Got my thesis grade & final transcript
    • Voted early
    • Opened my Etsy shop
  • November
    • Quit volunteering at Körner’s Folly, started volunteering at UNCG’s library, the local comic shop, and started babysitting
    • Thanksgiving with family friends!!
  • December
    • Made Christmas gifts for my family (took FOREVER)
    • Saw all of my US best friends within a week (one lives in NYC, one in SC, and one here at home)
    • Almost got a job (SO CLOSE)
    • Got my degree in the mail
    • Wrote the first book review of the year: Neal Stephenson’s Snow Crash (kind of perfect, right?)

So yeah, that’s pretty much it. I’m sure there’s a lot I missed, but there were a few months where I was really busy and a few where I didn’t seem to be very busy at all. Mostly, those months (at least in the Spring and Summer) were spent working on my Group Capstone Thesis project thing!

Anyway, happy new year!! HEllo 2017, pls be good to us!

31/08/16: Bonjour, Paris

Day 5 was my last day in Barcelona and I slept in the airport that night, so I spent Day 6 (green) sleeping and basking in the hotel room I was staying in.

Hated Barcelona el Prat, but I am LOVING this room upgrade. #Paris

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Day 7 (green-blue) started at the Eiffel Tower, since I had looked online and Sept 1-2 were the least busy days that I would be there. I also wanted to go in the morning because it would be less crowded, of course. I was amazed at the structure, it was so gorgeous and mostly because I was astounded at the engineering! I wanted to take the stairs up, but the stairs from the ground level to the next floor up were closed, so I had to get the elevator. I’m glad I did, since I got to walk from the toppest level down to the next levels, so I still got to see the views and such from the walk, but going down instead of up.

Goal: make it to the highest point that is possible as a tourist ✅

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After the tower, I went on a river cruise; I really enjoyed seeing Paris from a boat on the Seine. I like boats.

Goal: Be as water-adjacent as possible without being in the water ✅

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After the boat trip, I walked along the Seine to the Musée d’Orsay, which was amazing. It’s housed in a former train station that was built for the World’s Fair and from the clocks in its front face, you can look out and see the Louvre. An old couple told me about the museum when I was visiting London ages ago, so it was cool to go see. That, and the Degas dancers were there. Since I did ballet for 9 years, it was amazing to see the paintings and statues there in person.

Day 8 (light blue) turned into a Museum Expedition day, since I get into the museums for free I wasn’t too worried about getting my “money’s worth” since the money was 0. I started at the Louvre and got a ticket for the audio guide, but decided to start at Musée de l’Orangerie and Musée des Arts Décoratifs before heading back to the Louvre, since they’re smaller and I wouldn’t have to wait in line for any of them with my Irish ID. I was really excited to see the Barbie exhibit at Musé des Arts Décoratifs, since my mom sent me a link to an NPR article about the exhibition.

The exhibition was, honestly, the best one I saw all day! Mostly since the other places I went were museums, not exhibitions. I was surprised and a bit disappointed that the most common complain about Barbie, that her figure is outlandish and impossible, wasn’t addressed (it’s because the clothes when she was first made would literally not stay on her body otherwise), but I loved to see the evolution of Barbie, the diagram of her family and friends, and how they make the choices for new couture Barbie styles.

The highlight of the Louvre, for me, was to see one of Bartolomé Esteban Murillo’s The Young Beggar. I’ve been fascinated with Murillo’s paintings of street kids since I was a kid myself, sparked by three decorative plate-versions of the paintings my grandma had hanging in her dining room. I distinctly remember examining the paintings every time my grandpa put my shoes on, singing “Put Your Shoes on Lucy” since I always, and still, preferred to be barefoot.

My final day (Day 9, dark blue) started at Montmartre, where I saw the Moulin Rouge and the café from Amélie before walking up to Sacré-Cœur. I mostly walked around the streets for the first half of the day before hopping on the subway and heading for Cimetière du Père Lachaise. Just outside the cemetery walls was a little sidewalk market, where I, naturally, bought a new-old camera.

Lumière F:6,8 c1937
One of my fav photos I took of my new camera, but really I’m just trying to figure out what that little metal thing on the base is!

With my new camera in hand, I walked through the cemetery, amazed at what I call the Death Houses.

I visited a cemetery and decided I want a DEATH HOUSE when I die.

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Of course, I also hunted down Oscar Wilde’s resting place, but I found the Death Houses to be cooler. From the cemetery, I went and sat at the base of the Eiffel Tower, waiting for the light show when the lights turned on. Once the Eiffel Tower lights came on, I walked back towards the Louvre to head back to the hotel and grab my suitcase before heading to the hostel I was staying in before going to the airport the next morning.

All I’m going to say about my airport experience is that Beauvais airport is the worst airport I have ever been to in my life, and I have been to a lot of airports.

And that’s the end of my trip! You can find all of my photos at my Eurotrip 2016 Flickr album and below is a map of where I went!

 

Travel in (Relative) Style: Making the Most of Making It

This post is part of a series called Travel in (Relative) Style. It is the third post in the series.


Alright, you’ve made it to your lodgings! Since we’re not planning a trip for the purpose of this series, hopefully you’ve figured that out already… Now, how to make the most of being where you are?

Tip #1: Don’t stress it.
Whatever it is, I’m sure it’ll be fine. A lot of times, something not fine will happen. I have a theory about this: for every 7 days of travel, there must be 1 bad one. Sometimes it doesn’t happen, but if you think of it this way it’s a lot easier to shrug off the bad ones. Don’t stress even the worst ones (unless, like, you’ve been arrested and someone took all your stuff or something like that) because that’ll detract from the other 6 good days.

Tip #2: Embrace the tourism.
A lot of people will tell you not to look like a tourist. They’re full of shit. You’re gonna look like a tourist unless you keep your head down, ignore everything around you, and just go from point A to point B without looking at the sights. Just enjoy yourself. They’re not paying for your holiday, so why should they tell you how you should look?

Tip #3: Don’t be a dick.
That being said, you being a tourist is not a free pass for you to be a dick. Self-explanatory.

Tip #4: Ask for help.
Some people will say no and wave you off, whatever dude. Chances are, your best bet to find help is in a shop or something. If you’re in a big tourist city, especially in Europe, there’s going to be a tourist center somewhere, those people are literally paid to help you. A lot of times, if you’re somewhere where you don’t speak the language, people will be less helpful because they might be embarrassed by their English. Just be patient and reassuring, even though you’re the one who needs help. And don’t be afraid to ask for clarification about something. A lot of times, someone I’m talking to will use slightly the wrong word in English, so I’ll ask them what they just said but in native-English to double-check.

Tip #5: Travel cards.
A lot of cities (at least in Europe) have travel cards that tout discounts. They’re usually not worth it unless you’re traveling with a group and going to see everything they offer a discount for. Look at what the discounts are/are for and then check how many of them you were interested in and see if it’s cheaper that way. A lot of times, you’ll feel the need to “get the most of it” and spend the time crunching to see enough to get your money’s worth and that does not sound like fun to me.

Tip #6: Day tours.
Sometimes, day tours can be a pretty good deal. Dublin, for example, has some really good ones. They’re around 50EUR each in Dublin, but they include the bus there and back and to a couple of places. It would probably be about the same for a train ticket and you’d probably have to take a rounder way because of the travel method. If you’re spending a lot of time in a place and you’ve run out of things to do, check for day tours.

Tip #6: Everybody loves post cards.
Get people’s addresses before you go and send post cards if you can. You don’t need to write them a long letter, you’ve got limited space. If every post card is going somewhere different, you can write variations of the same simple “This card is from ____. Today I went to ____ and saw ___. The weather is ____. Miss you!” (NOW YOU KNOW MY SECRET TO HOW I WRITE TENS OF POST CARDS AT A TIME.) They’re a cheap souvenir, too. I love visiting people I’ve sent post cards to and seeing them hanging up on their wall. Plus, they’re everywhere. Finding stamps might be a bit harder, but usually a shop that sells post cards will also sell stamps, or at least know where the closest shop that sells stamps is located. You’re not the first tourist to ask and you won’t be the last.

Tip #7: Gifts.
A lot of people turn their noses up at tourists in tourist shops (refer back to #2 for how I feel about those kinds of people), but a lot of those places will have 2-for-whatever deals or something like that. Gifts that are small and pretty universal are a good idea. My brother, for example, collects shot glasses and I’ve only had trouble finding them in Milan and China, but everywhere else they’re everywhere. I collect pins and buttons, my cousin and I collected bracelets in every country we visited in 2012, etc. If you’re stuck on what to get someone, send them a post card.

Tip #8: Universals.
There will be some things you didn’t/couldn’t pack that you can buy when you get there, but just be aware it might be a little more expensive. Just today, the day I’m writing this, I had to buy a 100mL thing of sunscreen and it was more than buying a big bottle of sunscreen back home, I just couldn’t bring my big bottle with me. (I have so. many. bottles of sunscreen, I ALWAYS have to buy it when I travel….) You’ll be able to get pretty much whatever you forgot/couldn’t bring where you are, unless it’s something really specific. The actual details of whatever it is might be slightly different, but it’ll work.

Tip #9: Relax.
I’ll admit, I’m still working on this one. I always feel the need to get my money’s worth during a trip, so it’s hard for me to have a day where I didn’t “see anything” or whatever. It’s good to have some down-time though, it helps you enjoy the trip that much more. And you can use that time to write your journal/blog entry and those post cards you got!

Tip #10: Have fun, but be aware.
You don’t have to be paranoid, everything will probably be fine, but you should still be aware of where you are and what’s around you. Little things like turning your backpack around to the front when you’re in a crowd to keeping your wallet and phone in a zipped bag instead of your pockets might make things a little inconvenient, but safer. I am always fidgeting, so even in the most crowded Beijing subway, I could tell when someone was even lightly brushing against my backpack because I’m always shifting back and forth. Be aware, but seriously, don’t go overboard. Unless you’ve gone somewhere really dangerous, in which case, why are you even reading this, this is not that type of blog??

That’s it. That’s what I’ve got so far. Feel free to comment on any of the posts if you think I missed something or if you have a question. I might make a separate series about packing and maybe another about planning trips, if that’s of interest to literally anyone. Or maybe I’ll do it because it’s my site and I’ll write what I want to!!

Travel in (Relative) Style: On Your Way

This post is part of a series called Travel in (Relative) Style. It is the second post in the series.


Your trip is booked, your bags are packed, your ride to the airport is here. The panic starts to set in, a lot in airports has changed in the past few years, maybe even the past few months. I’m here to tell you Rule #1 of travel:

HHGTTG
The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy is a wholly remarkable book. Perhaps the most remarkable, certainly the most successful book ever to come out of the great publishing corporations of Ursa Minor – of which no Earthman had ever heard of. … it has the words DON’T PANIC printed in large friendly letters on its cover.

Well, ok, at least don’t visibly panic. It’ll be fine. Airports can be confusing lines and lanes and terminals, but you’ll be fine. If something goes wrong (which it usually doesn’t), there’s always a way to fix it.

Step #1: Arrive on time and dress appropriately.
I always wear a lot of layers when I travel. Sometimes one part of the airport will be freezing and another part will be hot. If you have a delay while you’re on the plane, it’ll get hot because they’ll shut the system off to save fuel. A lot of times, the plane is freezing once they get the facilities back on.
Most airports have suggested arrival cushions for how long you should arrive before your flight. They usually give you extra time, which is good. They know what they’re talking about, but if you have the option of arriving 2.5hrs early or 1.5hrs early and the airport suggests 2, go for that 2.5hrs. You definitely won’t need more than what they recommend, though.

Step #2: Check-in and check your bags.
Chances are, you’ve checked in online (or tried to), but if not, don’t worry. There’s plenty of places to check you in and you have plenty of time. It’s best to have some kind of ID handy (driver’s license or the like if you’re traveling domestically; passport if you’re traveling internationally) and the reference number from your booking. Also make sure your tags have the information for where you’re going. If you’re staying at a hostel or hotel, put their number on there.
If you’re checking a bag, you’ll need to make sure you haven’t got stuff they won’t let you have in your carry-ons and that kind of thing, but you should’ve at least thought about it before you left the house anyways. A lot of airlines have weight limits where they literally will not take your bag if it weighs too much. The number of people I see who think “oh, it’s extra heavy, it’ll just be oversized” and then find out that it’s extra, extra heavy and the airline won’t take it at all.

Step #3: Security.
This can be like WOAH, super anxiety-inducing. Here’s a tip: if you have nothing to hide, don’t sweat it! You’ll be fine. You’ll have time to fuss around with your things as you’re standing in line, so use that time to:

  • Get your laptop, iPad, and liquids out of your bags (not every airport will have you take out the iPad, but it’s better to take it out now than have to do it later)
  • Empty your pockets into your bag
  • Same thing with jewelry and the like, just pop em in your bag
  • Put your passport, ID, and boarding pass somewhere in your bag (you’ll need it at the gate)
  • If it’s winter, you can shove all this stuff into your coat pocket because you’ll have to remove your coat anyways

One trick I do is to take my coat off with my backpack. Then, when I go to grab my stuff again, I just slide my arms in the sleeves and go! I did that once with my sweater AND my coat and a little boy getting his shoes back on next to me went “Woah…” Yeah, buddy, I do this a lot.

Step #4: Find your gate.
Sometimes, you’ll arrive earlier than you have a gate, which is fine. It just means you’ll spend some extra time in the food area. Don’t worry about food or snacks just yet. Figure out which terminal you need to get to and get there. A lot of airports will have designated international terminals, so that should be pretty easy. Other airports are the central hub for a particular airline, so you’ll go there. Chances are, your terminal and gate are on your boarding pass, but if the gate isn’t there, the terminal definitely should be.

Step #5: Get some water and go to the bathroom.
If you brought an empty water bottle, fill it. Unless you’re flying to/from Asia, they’ll probably make you dump it out. Or buy a water. Again, unless you’re flying to/from Asia. I’ve gotten bloody noses on flights before, so to avoid that: stay hydrated!
Now that you’re near your gate, go to the bathroom. Airplane bathrooms are tiny and I always have to pee while we’re taxing or the fasten seatbelt sign is on or there’s a line. It’s the worst.

Step #6: Have a breather.
Have a seat! Relax! I like to sit on the floor during this part of the journey because I’m going to be sitting on a plane for the next however long and then the transport to where I’m going. Also, I like sitting on floors.

Step #7: Time to board.
Have your boarding pass and ID out and ready. They’ll board by zone, so if you aren’t worried about there being enough room for your carry-on luggage above you, there’s no need to be That Person standing really close to the gate desk. Seriously, no reason. You’ll just get in the way of people who are boarding or people with stroller or BOTH. Don’t do it. There’s time. They’re not going to leave without you.
When it’s time to board your zone, hand the person your boarding pass and ID at the same time. They might not need the ID, but it’s better to just hand it to them. Sometimes, they’ll tell you to board through a certain door because of where your row is. Sometimes, you’ll have to take a bus to the plane or walk outside for it, so be ready for that.

Step #8: In-flight.
By this point, you’re on the plane! You’ve made it halfway. There’s a few ways this can go:

  • You leave on-time and land a few minutes early!
  • You’re a little delayed on the runway before leaving and/or in the air before taxying and arrive on time (airlines usually add a bit of time to the estimated landing time for this very reason)
  • You’re very delayed on the runway before leaving and/or in the air before taxying and arrive late.
  • Everything is so delayed they offer you the chance to reschedule your flight.

In case of the last one, don’t panic. They’ll reschedule you for a flight or figure out a way to compensate you for the flight cost, but they probably won’t get you a hotel for the night. The airline isn’t on the hook for weather.
Once you’ve taken off, there will be a drinks/snack cart coming around. There will be complimentary things (if you’re not flying super cheap) and the longer flights will have a meal. When you booked your ticket, there’s the option to pay extra for the better meals and you’ll be able to buy alcohol, just don’t imbibe TOO much, it’s expensive.
Finally, for plane etiquette:
Don’t be a dick.
There’s going to be people in your space, people making noise, children who are screaming, etc. Don’t be a dick about it, that just makes it worse for everyone. Try to be aware of where you are in relation to those around you, too. Yes, sometimes it’s a long flight, but it’s a long flight for everyone around you. Also, the babies on the planes are literally in the worst pain they’ve ever experienced in their lives, try to have a little compassion for the babies and their parents.

Step #9: Disembarking.
Listen, friends, if you don’t have a connection to make or a screaming baby or a really pressing engagement, sit tight. People are always in such a rush to get off a plane, but then they end up standing there like doofuses for 10min waiting for the plane door to open. Plus, if you checked a bag, you’re going to have to wait for that eventually anyways, so just hang tight. There might be some people in a hurry to catch their next flight or get their poor baby off the plane. If you’re expecting someone to pick you up, they’ll understand.

Step #10: Connections.
Most of the time, you’ll have plenty of time. Sometimes, it’ll be a little tight. It’ll be fine. The gate agents once you disembark can sometimes let you know which gate you need to go to for your connection flight, but your best bet is to check one of the boards. Getting to the next terminal might be a little difficult (LOOKING AT YOU CHICAGO), but you can ask someone who works at the airport for directions. If you’re flying with the same airline and you’re worried about making it to the next flight, you can ask the gate agents to call the connecting gate.

Step #11: Customs and Border Patrol.
If you flew internationally, you might have to go through customs and/or border patrol. There’ll be signs about “EU Passport” or “Non-EU Passport” or something like that, just get in line! Also, be patient. There’s nothing you can do to speed this up and you can’t skip it. Have your passport and any other documents you need ready to hand to the person. They’ll ask things like “What’re you here for? Where are you staying?” That sort of thing.

Step #12: Baggage Claim.
From the plane, follow the signs to baggage claim. Once you’re there, your flight will have a turnstyle that might be shared with another flight. Because of the number of bags you’ll have to glance at to find your own, my family always puts colored duct tape on the handles. Make sure that there’s at least one kind of tape visible no matter which way the bag is laying. I have some striped duct tape on the top, side, and bottom handles of all of my suitcases.

Step #12: Leaving.
However you’re getting where you’re going, this is that time. You might have to go through customs at this point, it depends on the airport. A lot of the airports I travel through Europe have a little like customs box with automatic doors and it’s a breeze. If you’re meeting someone, they’re probably waiting out past baggage claim or out where cars wait. If you need a bus or train, there should be signs. SHOULD BE. There might not be, though, but you can ask airport staff for help.

The takeaways here are:
Don’t panic.
Don’t be a dick.
Don’t be afraid to ask for help.

30/08/16: Adíos, Barcelona

The weather has cooled and it’s raining. It’s been hot the past few days and I’ve spent most of them outside, walking the streets of Barcelona, so the light breeze that comes through the open door is nice.

When I first arrived, I didn’t have plans for much, I just knew that I wanted to go to the Museu Nacional d’Art de Catalunya and that I wanted to get my feet wet. Day 1 (red) was spent getting acclimated to the heat, getting food since Alex’s fridge was almost completely empty, and figuring out what else I wanted to see and the best way to do it. I ended up going to the supermarket up the street from Alex’s apartment twice and I used my (limited) Spanish to find whole milk and sandwich bags. It was at that supermarket that I discovered I can’t read Catalan. I also needed to buy sunscreen, since I didn’t bring enough with me, and the pharmacy was right by the water, so I took a walk along the beach. While researching, I found info that some of the museums were free after three on Sundays and the Museu Nacional d’Art de Catalunya was free after three on Saturdays, which was the following day.

My days all pretty much started off the same, I would get up around 10am (I’m on holiday and Ireland is an hour behind), have a bowl of cereal and a cup of chai, get my things together and slather on a layer of sunscreen, then walk along the beach to Montgat Nord train station. Saturday (Day 2, orange), I got off at the Arc de Triomf station, which was the first Barcelona station on the R1. I walked through the nearby park before heading to La Central bookstore to pick up a Catalan edition of Harry Potter, then to Plaça de Catalunya to eat my sandwich before making my way up up up to the museum. It was a hike, but it was gorgeous and worth it when I finally made it. The art in the museum was absolutely gorgeous and apparently I was also near the olympic stadium, which I discovered later when I was looking at a map and because I found the Font Magica.

Museu Nacional d'Art de Catalunya, Barcelona, Spain

Sunday (Day 3, yellow-orange) a lot of the museums were free after 3pm, so I started at Plaça de Catalunya again and this time walked down La Rambla towards the water. At the end of the big walking street was a huge monument to Christopher Columbus, the Mirador de Colom, but I kept meandering past him along the water, admiring my proximity to it. I love to be near/on water but not necessarily in water. So I like to be on piers and boats and the like. Once it was close enough to 3pm, I made my way to Museu Frederic Marès, which I thought was going to be like Ed’s Museum in Wykoff, MN based on its description, but instead it was a bunch of creepy wooden religious statues. A lot of versions of the same statue of Jesus on the crucifix and Mary and Jesus. There were four floors, but I left after three…

Museu Frederic Marès, Barcelona, Spain

From there, I went the Picasso Museum because it was also free but the line was way too long and I knew I would see something of Picasso’s again. Instead, I went to the Museu d’Història de Barcelona, which had a cool underground archaeology area that was the old city that they built the new one on top of. The coolest thing, though, was part of their temporary exhibit:

Museu d'Història de Barcelona, Barcelona, Spain
Her skull had been trepanned THREE TIMES.

At the end of the day, I had a ticket to the Palau de la Música Catalana tour and miniconcert and, honestly, you just have to look through the photos of this one. It was absolutely gorgeous. The detail work in every part of the theatre was incredible and the sun skylight/chandelier in the middle was amazing.

Palau de la Música Catalana, Barcelona, Spain

Monday (Day 4, yellow), I started back at Plaça de Catalunya and went down La Rambla again, this time because I was heading to the Oficina de Correos. At the Mirador de Colom, I wondered which way he pointed.

I was MONUMENTALLY disappointed that it wasn’t towards America or even India. After that disappointment, I got my stamps, went to a café called Clandestina, and finished writing/stamping my post cards.

My last day in Barcelona (Day 5, green) I spent at Platja Montgat. I had to pack and plan for Paris and finish writing my post cards before I left, plus I was spending the night in the airport…

You can find all of my photos at my Eurotrip 2016 Flickr album and below is a map of where I went!

Travel in (Relative) Style: Before You Go

This post is part of a series called Travel in (Relative) Style. It is the first post in the series.


For the past three years, I’ve lived out of two suitcases. For the four years before that, I was back and forth between college and home, so I can pack my things up pretty quickly and go. Well, now. It’s taken a lot of practice and packcrastination (procrastinating on packing, which I do frequently enough to name), but I’ve finally sorted out the best ways to get ready to travel.

Tip #1: Sort yourself before you go.
There are a few things I always make sure I have sorted out:

  1. Where am I going?
  2. How am I getting there?
  3. Where am I staying when I get there?
  4. How do I get from how I got there to how I’m staying and back?
  5. How do I get around once I’m there?

These are all things that I list as the utmost important parts of travel. A lot of times, I’ll need to plan for something like sleeping in an airport because I’m flying the 6:30am RyanAir flight (not only is the flight cheap, but sleeping in an airport is free). Sometimes, the airport isn’t open 24-hours (LOOKING AT YOU PARIS), but luckily I’m not the only one trying to sleep in airports.
The point of this anecdote, is that I need to make sure I know that I’m not going to end up without a place to stay when I’m traveling and that I’ll be able to get around (to and from the airport/train, to and from attractions). If I’m in a familiar country, it’s not a big deal, but if I’m traveling pretty far and can’t change my flights, then I need to make sure I check these things before I book.

Tip #2: Don’t worry about it.
I know, I know, I literally just listed things to worry about before you go. However, chances are if you’re going somewhere, you already have a reason you’re going. Maybe you’re visiting a friend or family, maybe there’s something you really want to see there, maybe you’ve always been interested in visiting this place. These are all things that you already know. If you try to make Big Plans for your trip, you won’t be as flexible when you get there and you’ll start to feel sort of guilty if you can’t get done everything you thought you would.
One of the best trips I’ve ever had came because I was in Shanghai with no plans. When I went, it was just because I was living near Beijing and Shanghai is “one of those places” (you know, the ones you have to visit). Since I had no plans, I was flexible to spend the week with Lisa, Alex, and Victor. That was over a year ago, and I’ve made plans to see all of them again! If I’d had Goals or Big Plans when I went to Shanghai, that never would have happened.

Tip #3: Make a list of what to pack, then cut it in half.
First, count up how many days you’re going to be gone. Then, think about your laziest days around the house. How many days in a row are you comfortable wearing the same clothes? How often do you change your pants/shirts? After living in China, I started wearing the same two pairs of leggings until I got camel knees or there was something spilled on them. Sounds gross, right? Well, it means that now when I pack, if I’m only going for a week, I only need one pair of leggings! See how great that works out for me? LESS LUGGAGE IS BEST LUGGAGE.
I also always bring a “Bag o Stuff” with me:

  • Medication(s)
    • Allergy meds
    • Aspirin
    • Alka Seltzer Cold Plus
    • Lemsip
  • Bandaids
  • Feminine products
  • Chapstick
  • Hair ties + Bobby pins
  • Small thing of vaseline (HEAT RASH IS NO JOKE)
  • Deodorant (get the rolly kind, it’s not a liquid and it won’t break)
  • Tissues (I started carrying these in China because the bathrooms never had TP)
  • Pen + something to write on
  • Napkins
  • Tape
  • Gum

These are things I always used to go “DANG I WISH I HAD THAT” and now? NOW I DO.
As for electronics and things, think about what you absolutely need. How long are you going to spend with dead time (layovers, getting to the airport early, etc)? I bring a paper book and my iPad with books on it (sometimes there’s no plugs nearby), my wall-to-USB, a power pack, and my headphones. Some airports won’t have WiFi (looking at you London, 1hr WiFi in airports people frequently sleep?? Madness).

Tip #4: Bring a camera (or don’t).
Good question. I have a digital camera, but I pretty much just use my phone camera. I used to take a bunch of pictures until I lost my camera and then realized I spent more time looking through my camera screen than looking around. I know some people like to make scrapbooks or have prints, I kind of want an instant camera, but I don’t NEED one. I do like that my digital camera is good for low-light photography, though, since I spend a lot of times in museums taking pictures inside without flash.

Tip #5: You don’t need to be pretty. Also, your hair dryer/straightener/curler is going to blow up anyways (if you’re traveling abroad).
Think of it this way: You’ll likely never see these people again in your life. And they’ve never seen you before in their lives. Save space in your luggage and leave your cosmetics behind. Otherwise, you have to deal with the liquids rules and plus, it means you’d get to sleep later while you’re traveling, which will be especially important if you’re jetlagged.

Tip #6: Bring a pillow.
Airplanes will have blankets and pillows, but the pillows might as well be non-existant. They’re great for lumbar support if you fold them in half, but they’re not great for sleeping. Plus, you might end up in a hostel that has super flat pillows you can’t sleep with, but hey, good thing you brought that neck pillow with you!

Tip #7: Bring a journal.
I always forget what I’ve done on trips. It’s best to write down what you did, even if it’s just a bulleted list, that day. You can fluff it out into more of a piece later, but the reason all of my travel posts are rambly and lengthy is because I’m literally typing out things as I remember them. And sometimes, I never write a post because I waited too long and then I forgot what I did.
You don’t need anything fancy, just make sure it’s not going to fall apart. If you’re worried you won’t be creative enough, don’t. But like if you’re really worried about it, there are some “premade” travel journals. Find something you like that will work for you and won’t fall apart.

Tip #8: Start a blog.
If you’re going to be traveling for a while, start a blog! Take that journal and… type it. People you know will be excited to read about your adventures, although I’m still convinced the only people who read this are my parents. (My dad is, like, the only person who comments on my posts, even though I know people are seeing my posts on Facebook and Twitter!)
This website started as a journal that got typed. May 2012, I went on a river cruise with my gramma, aunt, and cousin, so I started a blog to keep my family up-to-date on our trip, then I studied abroad Fall 2012, moved to China in 2014, and moved to Ireland in 2015. Now, it’s 2016 and this is post #125, so who knows. Maybe you’ll stick with it. (Still convinced it’s just my parents read. HI MOM)

Tip #9: Have some sort of fitness tracker.
Most smartphones have this feature (not sure about Android, but Apple Health will do it and I know that Fitbit’s iOS app will use your phone to track how far you’ve walked), so you don’t need a fancy fitness tracker. But trust me, when you climb the Great Wall of China, you’ll be curious to know how many flights you climbed (227).

Tip #10: Packcrastinate.
Seriously, this links back to #2. Don’t worry about it, packcrastinate. If you forget something, you forgot it, not a big deal. You’ll be able to buy a new one and it’ll be a story later. Make sure you check the airline’s luggage regulations, I usually travel with a large suitcase (checked), a small suitcase, and a small backpack (which is basically a two-strapped, large purse) because most airlines don’t care! The cheaper the flight, the more they’ll care about your luggage. You didn’t pay them that much, so you’ll just have to suffer. But if you stick with the “calculate what you might need, then cut it in half”, you’ll be fine.

And that’s the final takeaway here:
You’ll be fine.

You might have some bad travel days (I have a theory on that I’ll cover later), but it’ll be fine. You’re going somewhere new, so don’t hold on to the “Oh no, this isn’t working out” and keep in mind the “even the shittiest experience will be a great story.” It might just take a (few) month(s) for it to be a great story.

Article Series: Travel in (Relative) Style

So as my time in Ireland nears its end, I have a lot to get done. A lot of traveling, some thesis writing, and my best friend from high school is coming to visit! She’s been asking me a lot of questions about traveling, so I’m going to compile a list of travel tips and tricks that I’ve picked up since I started this blog (and started traveling internationally) in 2012.

The way I travel has vastly changed since then, and only part of it is due to my increased experience! (Most of it is due to my decreased budget since I primarily travel alone and out of my own pocket…)

So, to ease my friend’s travel anxieties and to sort of compile some of my travel tips, the posts will start tomorrow and post every other day. They are split up into the following categories:

  • Before You Go [scheduled for 29 Aug 16:30] – This will primarily cover packing, since that can be so hard to do!
  • On Your Way [scheduled for 31 Aug 16:30] – From check-in to leaving the airport, this will cover the journey through the airport
  • Making the Most of Making It [scheduled for 2 Sep 16:30] – This will cover what happens after you have gotten to your accommodation, although some of these things will be useful to look up before you leave

As of the time of writing and on the post date for the entire series, I am on holiday. I have my computer with me, but y’know, Barcelona and Paris beckon!

22/08/16: What’s Coming Up

Man, oh man, I submit my thesis today. Including cover page, index, appendices, references, and the actual content itself, it’s 50+ pages. It’s good to be done, but I was using the Gatsby Party as the bookend of the summer and that was a week ago…

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The Gatsby Party was the day before my 25th birthday, so that was awesome timing. Then, the day after my birthday I went to visit my friend Edith in Killarney, Co. Kerry. It was great seeing her and Maël (her boyf) before they move to France in September, although I will see them in Maynooth for her graduation. It seems like only yesterday she was a first year! (Edith and I met when we lived together when I was studying abroad, she was a first year at the time.)

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This week (on the 25th!) I go to Barcelona and from there I head to Paris. I’m going to be staying on a friend’s couch in Barcelona and my dad got me a hotel room for my birthday in Paris (I called my mom to ask for advice on booking a hostel because the cost:hostel ratio was not worth it and instead ended up with a hotel room! BEST FAM).

Then I’ll be back in Ireland for a week and a bit before Katie comes to visit, so hopefully in that time I can visit a friend in Limerick, go to Howth with some other friends, and pack… Maybe I’ll go to Howth with Katie and my friends here! Two birds, one trip.

Then once Katie is here, we’re going to Edinburgh and then traveling around Ireland and then we’re flying home together! I’m very excited to go home. 😀

In the meantime, there’s still posts scheduled in my portfolio for every Monday at 4:30pm and a new series of articles is going to post here on travel tips for Katie called Travel in (Relative) Style. They’ll post at 4:30pm, too! I’m also working on a page for the site that will have a description of the projects and posts and each of the sections of this site, since there isn’t one of those…

18/07/16: A …Sunny? Day in London Town

So I went to London (again) for a few days and, in fact, I just got back yesterday. I think I get some kudos for posting this relatively quickly….

I booked this trip a few months ago because I had tickets to Harry Potter and the Cursed Child and didn’t know I was going to be visiting London twice in March, but that meant I had the chance to book a day trip to Stratford-Upon-Avon. Although, the booking of that was a DAMN MESS because I am apparently terrible at dates/times. I booked the wrong times TWICE before finally getting it sorted and correct.

Museum of the Year 2016!!

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I did luck out and happen to be in London at the same time as the Victoria and Albert Museum was offering a free behind the scenes tour of their Conservation Studios, so I got my ticket for that while I was visiting in March. That was so cool, even though I was the youngest person there by about 40 years (or more…) Sadly, I wasn’t allowed to take photos, but I did get to see the paper, books, painting, textiles, and sculpture conservation studios. The textile studio was my favorite, there was a gorgeous 1950s-esque dress on display in the studio and “The Souper Dress” was just visible if I stood up on my toes and peered around everything.

 

The Souper Dress

After my tour of the V&A, a couple of artists I follow on Tumblr who happened to be in London at the same time met me there and we went through the V&A and its Undressed exhibit. I had already met up with them the day before for ramen and wandering after I landed in London and we planned to meet up again, but it never worked out. It was fun to hang out with them, though.

The next day, I was looking for weird museums to go to, so I went to the Ragged School Museum, which was really small. It was a school started for orphans and homeless children by a doctor who came to London from Ireland intending to be a doctor missionary in China, but he decided to stay in London and help children there. I was talking to the volunteer and he was super friendly and knew a lot about the museum, so it was nice to chat with him before the school groups descended on the museum. Once the kids got there, it was too loud from them walking around and he was busy so I went on to the National Maritime Museum and the Royal Observatory.

I got a ticket for the Royal Observatory and it included a free ticket to the space-themed exhibit, Above and Beyond, in the National Maritime Museum that I wanted to go to but didn’t want to get a separate ticket for, so that worked out really well! In the Royal Observatory, I got to stand on the Prime Meridian line and go up in the giant dome where the telescope used to be. It was so lovely out in Greenwich, I was amazed at all the greenery and the big boat (the Cutty Sark)!

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My last stop of the day was the Harry Potter play, but I won’t say anything about that because #spoilers. Except that my heart was full of feelings for these guys:

malfoys

So the weirdest thing happened when I was on Facebook, though, because it turns out someone I worked with at Best Buy who had been going to university in Hawai’i since I had left for China was in London at the same time! What a coincidence. So we decided to meet up for tea the next day at 3.

Before meeting my friend, I went to the Wellcome Collection, which wasn’t as weird as I was hoping it was going to be, and I tried to go to the Zoological Museum, which was closed. But I did get to see a trepanned skull, so that was cool.

On my way to meet up with Josh, I went to a vintage shop and flicked through the jean jackets, ultimately finding one that was super cute AND super marked down. The original price in the vintage shop was 50GBP but I got it for 18. Yes, I am bragging about my name-brand jean jacket being HELLA CHEAP cause a brand new jacket from the same company is like 100GBP. DEALS.

So then I went for tea with Josh, who I hadn’t seen in 3 years. We talked about vintage cameras, which was awesome, because he works at a camera shop in Hawai’i and does photography and stuff. We decided there are three kinds of Camera People: Big Tech (like him), Vintage (like me), and Hobbyists (like my dad). He was impressed with my vintage collection and I with the massive expensive cameras that he got to work with, so it was awesome to be able to talk to someone about cameras and them actually understand.

After that was part 2 of the HP play, where I definitely DID NOT CRY ABOUT THE MALFOYS.

The next day was my last in London, so I decided to go to Stratford-Upon-Avon. The adventure was a bit of a mess, from not having the card I used to book the tickets to not finding a place to store my bag (I left it with some theatre staff, not technically a cloakroom at all), but I did get to see Shakespeare’s house and grave and gardens, and the town was super nice even if I was a little ill. (Did I mention I got sick like Day 2 of this trip and felt like I was dying by part 2 of HP?? Cause I was DYING.) On the train back, though, I chatted with these two nice old men because one of them brought out his lil packet of travel tissues because I was very obviously snuffly and miserable. We talked about 60s TV shows and SciFi and traveling, and when I went to leave, he gave me the lil packet of tissues!

Said hello to the Bard today.

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So after my train back from Stratford-Upon-Avon, I went to the airport, because that’s where I was sleeping, and I managed to get a two-seat section that I wedged myself into for a nap. Then I caught my flight at 6:30am and went home and slept!